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The 3 stupidest comforting texts we speak to parentsPeople tell them what saliva will bring to their language.
Sometimes they say certain sentences in good faith ... Unfortunately, the good intentions are hell paved.
There are also those who, by commenting on certain facts, try to show their superiority. We succeeded. We are happy. You have it differently, it can't be happiness.
1. Oh, my second daughter. The third time you will succeed!
Do you know it
I know perfectly well. I have two daughters. I have heard it hundreds of times in many ways, in many versions, with a smile, irony, kind of a joke, seriously, with feigned sadness, with an attempt to become affectionate, in a comforting, advisory or indisputable tone.
Versions are different: more or less gentle: "oh did you fail ...", "boy? No ... oh, what a pity, "" girl again? Hey ... I'll tell you how to make a boy "," the third time there will be a boy "," you have to keep trying "," you do not have parks, do not stop in efforts "," a real guy must father a son "," and what's the name, dad your husband will not be comforted "," you need a boy to be completely happy "," girl? he is depressed, with whom he will play football ”
After such comments, the interlocutor expects your reaction. It's best to smile and not enter into a discussion. This is not always possible, because each of us has a different sensitivity. One will ignore, the other will care.
In addition, the commentator often delves the topic further, and you feel obliged to reassure you of your happiness or inform you about the obvious facts that you love two daughters and you would not exchange any of them for even the most wonderful boy. Because they are your children.
The Sansa campaign for life, the chance for new memories has fulfilled its objective
11 maternities from Romania received 14 state-of-the-art equipment for premature babies
The third edition of the campaign "Chance for life, chance for new memories" met its goal: 14 latest generation equipments for premature children were donated to 11 maternity hospitals in Romania.
The equipment, which did not exist in the maternity hospitals in Romania before the start of the campaign, allows the high frequency ventilation of the premature ones that develop pulmonary complications, increasing their survival rate.
"Chance for life, chance for new memories" took place from September 1 to November 30, 2010. The campaign aimed at increasing the number of children saved early and had two components:
educational - informing the public about the prevention of premature births and the methods of adequate care of the premature;
investment - equipping with 14 ventilation systems with high oscillation frequency of 11 maternities.
The website www.sansalaviata.ro was the communication platform of the campaign and provided information about the premature births and the possibilities of preventing them, about the complications that premature babies can develop, as well as tips for caring for these children.
The 11 maternities included in the program treat a large number of premature children and cover the whole territory of Romania: Bucharest (Cantacuzino, Giulesti, Municipal, Polizu - 2 equipments), Cluj (Obstetrics and Gynecology Clinics 1 and 2), Iasi - 2 equipments , Oradea, Sibiu, Timisoara and Targu-Mures.
7 children already saved due to new devices
"Since the campaign, some centers have already saved 7 children and we are confident that during the next months the donated devices will prove useful for all beneficiary neonatology sections. The value of the 14 equipments is RON 1,300,000," Olivia said Ciubotariu, External Relations Specialist at Procter & Gamble.
In Romania, every year, over 20,000 babies born prematurely and newborns with low birth weight are registered. Its prematurity and complications are responsible for more than half of the neonatal deaths, representing one of the main causes of neonatal mortality in our country. C
the most common cause of mortality due to prematurity is respiratory distress syndrome (RDS). This requires the use of an artificial ventilation system. One of the most advanced ventilation systems is the high frequency that helps prematurely born children survive and, in addition, reduces the psycho-motor disabilities associated with prematurity.
High-frequency ventilation uses respiratory frequencies that exceed the normal respiratory frequency and is aimed especially at prematurities born before 32 weeks. In 2009, in Romania there were 2,576 children who had a gestational age of less than 32 weeks (1% of the total number of live births). High frequency ventilation helps reduce complications and increases survival rate. At this moment, no maternity ward in the country has such equipment.
"The donation of these 14 high-frequency ventilators is very important for the premature infants in the 11 centers. The mothers who received these fans provide medical assistance to children with the youngest gestational ages, who are a worldwide unknown. adaptations to extra uterine life, the biggest problem they have is the respiratory one.The devices work and have the role of saving, mainly, the lives of children with respiratory distress, but also of other children who develop complications.
The Neonatology Association of Romania has developed a common portfolio that will be applied in all maternities that have benefited from these high performance equipment, in order to track the evolution of children. A series of common parameters will be monitored, which will be interpreted over 6 months. We expect a positive impact as a result of using these devices. For neonatology in Romania they represent a step towards the equipment standards in the West, where high frequency ventilation has started to be used since the mid-1990s, "said Prof. Univ. Dr. Silivia Stoicescu, President of the Neonatology Association from Romania.
Thank you very much for participating in the Pampers online meeting, for asking questions and sharing your experience with all the other mothers.
At the end of this first meeting I drew the following conclusions:
There are a million kinds of parents.
There are a million ways to raise your baby.
There are one million horses during development.
When it comes to raising a child, his needs are the only things that really matter.
And no one denies that, the most important things for each baby are LOVE, SLEEPING and PLAYING.
That's why Pampers helps you enjoy, support and protect these three things in a million ways and wishes you to have years of LOVE, SLEEP and PLAY.
What do you think? Do you agree that LOVE, SLEEPING and PLAYING are just as important for your baby's happiness and healthy development, or do you consider one of these three things to be more important in raising a baby? If so, what would that be?
Parents who do not love their children
Is it possible that a father or a mother does not love their child? This is undoubtedly a tricky and difficult topic to tackle, in fact, it is a topic that is not talked about and about which we can find very little information as if it were a taboo.
We tend to deny everything that is difficult for us to accept and digest. For this reason, It is unlikely that I know of the situation of parents who do not love their children, but it is possible.
1- Feelings of rejection or emotional distancing.
Fathers and mothers frequently attend psychology consultations who report feeling a great emotional distancing or feelings of rejection towards their children who do not know how to fight and, furthermore, do not know how they originated. These feelings of rejection or emotional distancing generate great guilt in parents and this prompts them to seek psychological help on some occasions.
These feelings are very common in the first months after the baby is born, many parents experience them but it has nothing to do with not loving the child. They are usually temporary, so we should not be alarmed if for a time we feel emotionally distanced from our child.
Having a child is a major change in our life. It is normal that we miss certain privileges or comforts that we had before becoming parents and that this produces some dissatisfaction that translates into feelings of rejection towards the child that will soon fade.
2- Toxic relationships between parents and children.
There are fathers and mothers who do not love their children adequately and establish with them a toxic and harmful bond for both parties, although especially for the child because he is in a situation of greater vulnerability. Parents who establish toxic relationships with their children are not, in most cases, aware of the harm they do to children. They relate to their children from their fears, their needs, their shortcomings and their frustrations and inhibit the possibility of their children growing up in a healthy way. They frequently point out what they are doing wrong, they do not transmit positive messages, they generate guilt and constantly demand them. And, frequently, they manifest behaviors of humiliation, hostility, rejection and contempt.
Is hurting a child emotionally incompatible with feeling love for him? From our point of view, yes or at least that way of wanting is absolutely wrong. It is not enough to want, it is necessary to want well.
3- Lack of feeling of love or affection towards a child.
There is nothing more painful for a child than to suffer from the lack of love of his parents for him. This is also possible to happen although it is the least likely. There are parents who do not provide affection to their children, who do not take care to offer them protection, neglect their needs and who do not maintain any bond of attachment with them, causing the children to be involved in a situation of emotional abandonment. The lack of affection and affection has serious consequences since it interrupts the cognitive, physical, emotional and social maturation of the child. And, unfortunately, many children find themselves in these kinds of situations.
This topic is difficult to address and, as we mentioned at the beginning of the article, it is a topic that there is much to talk about but unfortunately it is usually a taboo. In this article we have tried to mention the situations that can make us think that a child is not being loved by their parents. But there are some situations, such as temporarily feeling feelings of rejection towards our child, that have nothing to do with not feeling love towards him or her, so we should not worry if this happens to us.
You can read more articles similar to Parents who do not love their children, in the category of Family conciliation on site.
The parents of young children end up missing many parents. The passing seemed clear from a cheerful and optimistic state to an angry one, in which she cries and throws everything she meets on the way, causing the parents to err and leaving them without solutions. They do not know what to do because they often fail to identify who is the trigger for this sudden change of disposition.
Sudden changes of disposition are a natural part of children's development. It is essential, as a parent, to differentiate between these reactions and inappropriate behavior or mischief. You must first understand the underlying causes to help them overcome and correct them.
Common causes of small children's stomachs
Young children cannot and do not know how to communicate their needs and experiences as they should
For 1-3 year olds, it is frustrating that they cannot understand certain things that are happening around them. There are many aspects of the surrounding world that create frustration. These are transposed into crises of hysteria and uncontrollable and unexplained portraits of plan.
They can start from a simple boredom to a anger created by another child that I do not know how to express.
They do not master and do not understand the concept of time
The delayed reward (delayed recognition) of the child's merits is a concept that the little ones of 2-3 anisors do not understand. And because I do not understand, react immediately. Also, they do not know to wait for things to be given to them. They are waiting for what they need at the moment and they are doing very badly if their wish is not fulfilled.
They fail to control impulses
They put into practice what they feel, in their own way. I do not know that they must control their anger when they feel it and that they must behave in a certain way. They either do not know or fail to identify the anger with the screams, the crying or the exaggerated agitation of the behavioral evidence when it has this condition.
They have difficulty in easily moving from one activity to another
Young children have problems adapting to transitions. It takes physical and mental energy to make the rapid transition from one action to another and they do not always have these qualities, as well as the ability to concentrate so quickly on another activity, immediately after another.
They get tired and they get hungry very quickly
Although you may have just eaten and slept, your baby may experience fatigue and hunger faster than you think. These are other reasons that are the basis of young children's parents.
How do you cope with the baby's body?
with a lot of patience and perseverance to find out the cause of the stumps; parents tend to get upset quickly when they notice that their little ones have it, without knowing what their reason is;
sometimes the children have simple, as the method to attract the attention or from the boredom, with them it is the most difficult to fight, but the best method is to always have at hand another activity or idea to get them distract attention;
teach him to recognize emotions, feelings, feelings and express them verbally; many of these crises will be avoided in this way.
Cheats from moms in the community to cope children's clothes small
Crinamm: How much firmness on our part. Not to give back when I said not to do a thing, meaning he wants to take a thing I do not give him, he crosses the bottom of the earth and I give in and give him that thing, that is, NO stays. And if we put a "little penalty" to hold on to it otherwise ... there are no chances of success.
Ankag: Discipline, perseverance. And Tina screams when she wants something or if she does something she doesn't want. This is how they express their desires at first, until I speak. But the role of the parent from my point of view is to explain to the child what is allowed and what is not allowed, to put his words on his lips. For example, we are at the table and I give her to eat with a teaspoon and if she wants to give them faster and she starts and shakes, the girl bends. I do not get angry, I do not agitate, I do not react quickly ... I ask calmly "Do you want more?" "Yes?" and then I give them another teaspoon. And so ... with great patience and every time.
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For the first time, human embryonic DNA has been successfully modified by Chinese scientists. Western biologists have voiced serious moral concerns about this - the South China Morning Post reported.
Human embryoHuang Chen-chiu, a professor at Sun Yat-sen University in Guangdong, was "eliminating" a delicate genome responsible for the beta thalassemia, using transparent technology. Beta thalassemia is the most common, sometimes fatal, blood cancer of South Chinese children. Their study was published in two of the most prestigious scientific journals, British Nature and American Science, and Ethics.
In the Protein and Cell magazine, the Chinese scholars understand that they are conducting such research in a moral debate.
For the study, they used "problematic embryos discarded by hospitals" or used more sperm-fertilized ova, which "scientific worlds have been using for decades because they could never be used."
British biologist Edward Lanphier told Nature that this research should be paused until there is a broad debate about what kind of agency he is pursuing.
Although Huang did not comment on the reactions, according to scmp.com, his work found strong support among Chinese biologists. According to Chen Kuo-chiang, a professor of biology at Cinghua University, the critics are delusional: "If we do what they say, human embryos would not be able to be researched at all. the key to health, youth, longevity is the redesign of human gays. All of this will be possible in the future and will free many from suffering. "
Chao Si-min, a biologist at Fudan University in Shanghai, does not find Huang's research morally unacceptable because "only embryos are tested" and "research is far from clinical use".
According to Chao, human genetic modification is "inevitable", technology is used on plants and animals, and the next step is man. He warned, however, that - like all mбs eljбrбsnak - this also has its korlбtai йs kockбzatai. "The gйnszekvenciбk megvбltoztatбsa cause vбratlan problйmбkat that цrцklхdnйnek йs tovбbbi kбrosodбsokat, betegsйgeket vбltanбnak out aztбn nemzedйkrхl nemzedйkre, tehбt kцzцtt laboratуriumi frames should be хket szigorъan the human race would be extinct if we massively altered DNA uncontrollably. "
Huang's research team carried out experiments on 86 "destroying" embryos, and only 28, or about 30 percent, were successful in genomic transfer. Another worrying phenomenon was encountered: Genetic Exploitation Technology (CRISPR) often loses the selected gene, and after treatment there were mutations in the embryo.
The South China Morning Post commented on the experiments and their response that this is not the first time Asian scientists have conducted experiments on human embryos and this has provoked disgust in the West. A dozen years ago, South Korean scientists announced that they had succeeded in cloning embryos. They nationally celebrated them until it was revealed that they were not telling the truth.
According to a new study, Asian researchers are generally more likely to experiment with human embryos than their Western counterparts, because the public is more likely to accept it and less religious objection.